How do you get over your wedding aniversay as a divorcee?

Question

Today would of been my 9th wedding anniversary but its my first year as a divrocee how do you get over that inital day?? I am stayin in all day not answering the phone and picking out on the kids choc cakes and ice cream and takeaway LOL

Answer 1

Cheers!  It's not my anniversary (of anything bad) but I'll go get a slice of pizza & chow down with you :-)

Answer 2

Get yourself out and prove to your ex that they were a fool to let you go or not treat you right whilst you were together. I've been through this myself and now have a lovely wife and my 4th kid on they. Life is weird the difficult part is learning to accept it. Laugh often and preferably with friends or you get strange looks.

Good luck

Answer 3

Am a divorcee and during such days i call a friend who has gone through the same we go out and laugh/cry it all out. You cannot cry over spilt milk dear, its over so get on with life and don't look back!

Answer 4

For the first one (which would have been 25 years) I got rather drunk and cried a bit. Now I don't even realise it's my anniversary until i see the date on the newspaper or something like that. Time takes care of it.

Answer 5

take them out and celebrate, with cake and whatever, somewhere fun and entertaining. Let it not get you down, if it does the kids will pick up on it.  

Answer 6

FUNNY,,,I DID THE SAME THING..MY WOULD BE 22 YRS ANNIVERSARY WAS 16AUG AND I TURNED OFF MY PHONE THE ENTIRE DAY AND SAT AT THE BEACH AND CRIED A LITTLE AND READ A BOOK AND SLEPT..JUST SPENT TIME WITH ME AND ONLY ME..NOT EVEN BOTHERED WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS..MOMENTS HAPPEN..I SAY ALLOW THEM TO HAPPEN .,.YOU ARE HUMAN...YOU HAD A HISTORY WORTH REMEMBERING BUT NOT WORTH LINGERING ...GOOD LUCK TO YA...I KNOW HOW YA FEEL.