How do you get rid of a girl that is obsessing over and practicaly stalking you?

Question

PLEASE I NEED YOUR HELP

Answer 1

Avoid her as much as possible.  Get a calendar and log all the times she did something.  Talk to the police and ask what it takes to get a restraining order.  Some people get really nasty when rejected.  I'd leave her alone...she may be mentally ill.

Answer 2

tell her straight up

but without hurting her feelings, thats for sure

Answer 3

tell her you got a STD from her mom or something, lol but just tell her off, not rough but softly and gently and if she continue stalking you then call the police haha or make out with a different chick and she might back off. i don't know man sorry i didn't help much

Answer 4

Stay away from any areas and places that you usually see her. Or straight out go up to her and let her know that it is inappropriate and that you do not want her following you or talking to you. Good luck.  :)

Answer 5

Tell her you love her.  Ask if you can carry her books.  That same day ask if you can walk her home.  Call her 7 times that night.  Tell her you love her the next day and cant live without her.  ASk her to run to Mexico and marry you.  Ask her if shes ready for children.  You get the idea.  You need to come off as desperate and she will run.  Also try to make out with her and make sure you go further physically than she wants to go.. and if she says stop just keep going until she freaks out and has to push you away... then look at her and start trying to kiss her again..  She wont be able to get far enough away from you in just a couple days time.

Answer 6

If you're male tell her you're not interested in her, that you're not attracted to her.

If you're female tell her you don't want to be her friend.

In any case, tell her to stop it.

Answer 7

Try not to be too mean to her. Talk to her and explain to her that she needs to leave you alone and that you arent interested in having a relationship with her.

Secondly, try to just take it as a compliment. Its not the end of the world that someone shows interest in you.  

Answer 8

Just go up to this girl and tell her how you feel about her. Tell her that she is creeping you out... and she will get so embarrassed she won't again!

Answer 9

Report it with substantiation.  You need to document her actions to prove your contentions.  School authorities or police, whomever is appropriate.

If it is serious and those don't act, consider the press.  

Answer 10

You just treat her kindly.  She might be right for you in the long run.    

Answer 11

nothing will work, its the cold hard truth, shes loves you, and just ignore her, then you'll brake her heart, but she still wont leave you alone. my friend sounds just like this girl your talking about. good luck!

Answer 12

Honesty is the best policy. Just tell her to leave you alone.  :0

Answer 13

tell her your twin came to visit on the other side of the country.  

Answer 14

f**t and burp everytime she's around you...and then tell her she has that effect on you

Answer 15

first off..

DONT BE MEAN that would kill her...

but just go up to her at school or text her and be like hey ive noticed that you like to hang around me..but like if i want to be ur FRIEND (stress that word) then first i need a bit of space and if she doesnt stop then just be like look could u please stop following me im just getting a little freaked out...still doing it then get friends to go up to her adn say somehting

Answer 16

Develop bad habits like other men...

Don't bathe, and when you do - don't use deodorant

pass wind and don't say sorry

belch

dig your nose and then hold her hand

yawn when she speaks

turn on the radio in the car as soon as she starts singing sweetly

Eat foul smelling stuff and go really close to her and talk while blowing out air at the same time.

Cough on her without covering your mouth

It will work. She will disappear like magic. Let me know if it works. Takes a couple of days, because you can't fit everything in to one day. But it is a good investment of time.

Answer 17

Say "I'm sorry, but you really creep me out. Please do not hang around me anymore. This is final, and will not change". If this happens at work, contact your HR department. If this is at school, contact a counselor. If this is just general life, you may need to get a restraining order. Good luck.

Answer 18

Tell her she's a nice girl, but you are not ready for a relationship at this point in your life.

Answer 19

I agree with the first person.  

Answer 20

one day when she is behind you just turn around and start flailing your arms and screaming at her.  maybe you will scare her away....

  if your at school, talk to a guidence counseler. they will be able to talk to this girl and tell her that her behavior is making you uncomfy.

  or go to your parents or the cops or somethign

Answer 21

throw salt over your shoulder and make a pentagram of candles on the ground!

Answer 22

Don't give her mixed messages if she wants to date you. If she really is stalking you tell her flat out that you are not attracted to her and there is zero chance of you two EVER being together. If she isn't stalking you please turn her down a little gentler.

Answer 23

ignore her until it dies down

Answer 24

tell her that its never gonna happen and to F**k off. sometimes you gotta be a little mean, otherwise she'll just do it to someone else. Tell her whats up dude