How do you get rid of that feeling?

Question

you know when you fall out with a friend, and you get that feeling in your stomach, and you feel sick and nervous about it all and can't stop thinking about it?

how do you get rid of that feeling?

making friends with her is out of the question, she doesn't wanna know.

Answer 1

I h8 that feeling too. I can never and I know its hard but jst try not think about them. Wher u 4rm??

Answer 2

thats happend to me before..

for get about her shes not worth it..

delete all the messages and everything that reminds you of your friendship, she'll come round soon enough..

and if she doesnt, who cares you dont need someone like that anyway,

was it over something personal?

x

Answer 3

I used to fall out with friends all the time and I used to always be so nervous about going to school, I was scared of what would happen to me and others reactions because when one person didn't like me, they all didn't. I couldn't get rid of the nervous feeling but you know I experienced when I got to school, is that it always turned out better than I thought it would be. You end up dreading going to school but when you're actually there, the nervous feeling goes and you get along fine, If she's not interested in being friends, then she is obviously not worth it and she'll come round sometime, time is a medication. Just stay away from her and just forget what has happened. It'll all be better in the end, I promise.

Answer 4

I know exactly how you feel!  I just fell out with my closest friend a few weeks ago and my sister yesterday - complete separate stupid reasons!  So I've had this very feeling twice - it is horrible!  Especially when you really haven't done anything wrong so it's not like you can just apologise and move on.  It is so heart wrenching.  But at least you know you're not alone.  It happens to everyone from time to time because we're all different people with different opinions.  It'll blow over eventually, and you will be friends again - though in the same way? Or it won't blow over, in which case, forget it.  Friends come and go all the time through life.  Try not to let it get you down.  You'll feel better soon, time is a great healer! X

Answer 5

I understand how you feel completely,

If patching things up with her is completely out of the question, then your going to have to wait for the feeling to subside, because it's a hard ridden emotion your dealing with, and It will only take time...

Try relaxing a little, reading an exciting book, playing a video game... Get your mind off of the issue as much as you possibly can, that way your mind will allow you to move on.. since your changing your focus.

It's easier to lose a friend, then to lose the feeling that ensues.

Good luck and feel better =)

Answer 6

The best way to move on from this is to throw yourself into a hobby you love.  It's a great way to make new friends and take your mind off the old one(s).

It also doesn't hurt to pamper yourself with a new haircut, a manicure or just some good 'ol fashioned quiet time writing in your journal.

It's her loss... so keep your chin up!

Answer 7

if you don't feel good about that, you need to make-up and go on with life.your friends are gonna make mistakes. you need to forgive and not nessecarily forget but don't dwell or mention it again!

Answer 8

I Feel like that all the time when i Fall out with my Friends. I tend to keep out of there way and go off with someone elts and wola some one comes ova saying "Oh why arnt you hanging round with ..so n' so.."  n then In the end u come Face to Face with the person u both let it all out, go off cryin n they end up running after you hugging u from behind.

it works coz u keep out of there way n 2bh all they want to do is make up but trying to hide there feelings