How do you get rid of the awkwardness with a close friend?

Question

ok this is probably a very stupid question especially for someone at my age. but after having consecutive arguments with a close friend where feelings are involved and apologizing and now everything being ok but awkward, how would you make things get back to normal? he leaves tomorrow for 6 months so i only have one day...thank you if anyone can help

Answer 1

Its not always easy to get everything back to normal.  It unfortunately, takes time to settle.  Best I think you can do is be there to say goodbye to him.  Give him a hug or whatever form of affection you normally show him :)  Then stay in contact while he gone thru emails or phone if possible.  

Answer 2

spend time toghter!go out to a place u use to hang out or surprise him with taking him to his favorite hang out place!

dont spek more but do feel the happiness of being toghther wat better then being with som1 u like!

dont try to resove th feeling instantly!

stop asking or talking to related things for which u argue n said sorry n stuff laugh on th good times

good freindz r few!

Answer 3

Just be yourself, act like your normal self.. act as if nothing happened.. and make each other laugh. The akwardness will go away don't worry

Answer 4

You have to over-look the problems you were having. Forget about them, and go on. The feeling of it being awkward are normal for both of you. BUT if he is leaving, for six months. You should never let him go without....Forgiveness, Forgetting the problems you had. AND letting him know right off the bat. We can't be apart for six months...without first letting it go. We have to forgive and forget. Start fresh....Stay in touch....And when he returns in six months, the two of you Will  be fine. BUT if he leaves with an awkwardness between the two of you, and something were to happen with either of you...What regret the OTHER would have. Don't let that happen.....Much Luck

Answer 5

just go and tell that youll miss him and you like him very much as a friend

Answer 6

i had the same problem with my friend on two different occasions...one time we had a BIG fight but we werent in the same schools so we stopped talking..then all of the sudden we started (long time ago)

but just a few months ago i had a huge fight...we are best friends btw, and when i say huge is was huge...well we didn't apologize blah blah, bc we were both very stubborn...but then we had the school the very next day...very awkward...sat at the cafeteria and said nothing...i was still highly pissed and she was too...then i said something to her that made her smile..and with everyone talking we both went into the convorsation and were laughing...it took about 3 days for the heat to cool down but jjust think that we didnt apologize! and you did...dont worry, if she is your close friend....it WILL work its was out...don't force anything...like everyone was saying just laugh...

hope i helped =]

x

Answer 7

give him a peace offering / a parting gift.

don't mention the fights. don't bring up the past. let by gones be by gones.

keep in touch.