How do you get someone who used to be best friends with you to stop hating you for no good reason?

Question

We were so close, and now she says that we can be friends, just not as close. She says there are reasons, but she doesn't want to tell me because it would be "pointless." Please help!

Answer 1

she already decided not to be your friend. forget her. even if you bribe her with everything you got, she still has no inner feelings for you anymore. don't waste your money/time on her anymore.

Answer 2

wow! i say, if she's gonna act like that she's NOT worth ur time. if there really are reasons and she won't tell you, that's so stupid! but there probably isn't and she's just making up an excuse. girls like this are "pointless". try to find someone else that you could be really close to. and maybe she'll realize that's she chosen to do something stupid and want to try to be close with you too. but if that does happen, don't just up and drop ur new close friend for her. remember, she hurt you so take it slow!

good luck! :D  

Answer 3

just start out slowly and maybe one day you will b as close as u where

Answer 4

I'm going through the same thing, kinda.

Ask her why it would be pointless to tell you the reasons. Say trust is an important thing in a friendship and you should know the reasons so you can resolve them.

And if she says she hates you, why be friends with her at all? People like that aren't worth your time. If she can't trust you, then you shouldn't trust her..

Answer 5

if i were u, id s***w it. if she is not willing to give u a good reason to not be ur friend, then ignore her. if u keep asking and asking her she will use u as a little game of hers for her entertainment. trust me...

hope i helped (: