How do you get your girlfriend to crave you?

Question

I need to see more desire from her end to be with me, I need to see her want me, I need to feel wanted, desired, loved. I need it to be passionate, uncontrolable. This is the way it once was and now, after 8 months, I no longer see any desire. no more longing to be with me. I don't know if she has lost interest or what. I know she still keeps talking about a long life together, but I don't want that if the desire is absent. what do I do to see if she really wants me???

Answer 1

try something aggressive and intense in bed. i would swoon over that, personally.

Answer 2

It sounds to me like you two need to chat to each other, if you are feeling that she doesnt crave you any more, then talk to her about it, she probably doesnt even realise that you think like that.

Try something impulsive, do something romantic, something slightly different from your every day life, in any relationship things can go stale after a long period of time, you need to put a bit of spice back into the relationship.  

Answer 3

just be mysterious but not to mysterious

it doesnt have 2 be in bed either.

Answer 4

you gotta woo her. do something special and don't let it be just about s*x.

Answer 5

Dude...it always calms down some after the "honeymoon" phase is gone.  Don't worry about it too much.  Now if you feel she is unhappy and/or is reinforced by er saying so, then I would start to be concerned.

Answer 6

Try and deprive her of electrolytes by using a centrifuge to seperate these body necessary substances from the rest of what she eats or drinks. After a week of this, pour gatorade all over your body and she will be forced to crave you no matter how disgusted she is by your presence.