How do you get your wife 2 love you again?

Question

i haven't cheated on her ive been with her for 14yrs shes always mad at me we have 3 kids i really love where in a shelter right now and cause i got laid off she just got laid off also every day now she tells me shes tired where not made 4 each other she dosent want me 2 talk 2 any other women here in the shelter she goes away every weekend what should i do 2 keep my family 2gether please help with truthful info thanks

Answer 1

not worthy for you and your love.

Answer 2

buy her a diamond ring and tell her i love you.

Answer 3

Get a job if you can - any job - and provide for your wife and kids.

Answer 4

sweetie hang in there! fight for your family! and try to get a job! sweetie tell your wife how you feel about her and your kids! also tell her that you are sorry for everything that is happening to you guys right now, tell her that you will get a job. let her know that you know hoe stressful its not to have a house and food and ya family in better conditions right now! good luck sweetie i know you will find a job! just have faith and be positive! ;)

Answer 5

pray and keep your bible at your tips. He may not come when you want him but hes right on time and never give up. He will make a way for you. Trust him .

Answer 6

well, you both are depress now..

here's the story.. I was stay home for 10 yrs. we had great life. two kids and great income... then hubby got laid off.. believe me it was harder time of our life..  specially with the younger kids. and  I decide to looking for job.. I was so lucky .  got the job right way.. it was good job.. he stayed home for about 1yr and then back on track..

there are a lot of job out there.. if you cant get it. she may can get it..

GOod Luck !!!

Answer 7

You are all having a bad, stressful time, please don't split up at the one time you need each other. Try to keep going until you get out of this temporary rut, make special efforts to get a job & eventually a new home and new start. You will both be experiencing depression and mood swings & say things you regret later, it won't be easy but you can make it and be better for it as well.

Answer 8

Sounds like your family is in hard times right now. Does the shelter offer any counseling? Just hang in there with the kids, they need you more then ever. Maybe if you just go on with your life find a job keep the kids she will see that your strong. Hope it all works out for your family.

Answer 9

Honey, you are very depressed right now.  Your words show it.  You have every right to be.  But, she's depressed too.  Times are extremely hard for the two of you right now.  You need to just tell your wife that no matter what, you are there for her.  Tell her you love her more than anything in this world and no matter what happens, you are there by her side.  In sickness and in health, for richer for poorer, in good times and in bad!  Remind her of your vows and let her know you have no intention of breaking them now!  But I do highly suggest you and your wife seek counseling immediately.  Definitely individual counseling and marriage counseling if you can.  But you both need to seek help for yourselves first!  Things are rough and it will cause depression.  But it will also tear a marriage apart if one allows it.  That's why it is important you let her know that you are there by her side and this is the time in your marriage that you need to pull together and be closer than ever.  If she lashes out at you, accuses you, says mean things to you, keep in mind she doesn't really mean them.  She's depressed and she's very worried about the well being of her family!  My prayers are with you and your family!  Good Luck!

Answer 10

she is depressed

losing her home, her job, ect is why

she needs someone to depend on, and it's not you...

sorry