How do you go about asking for more 'aggressive' love making?

Question

Say it has happened a few times in those certain moods but generally, it's embarrassing to admit but it feels better when he's more forceful and aggressive. I always think he's just too kind to me though, he wouldn't ever force me into s*x if I didn't want it, so how can I encourage him to be a little more aggressive?

Answer 1

Communication is the key to every aspect of a relationship. While you are in the process of lovemaking, talk dirty to him. tell him you want it harder. Playfully(key word) slap him or dig your nails into his back a little. Tell him you like it when he is rough. Make sure that you have safe words so that he doesn't get carried away. Have fun. You sound like an open minded, fun loving woman. I hope it works out.  

Answer 2

tell him u want it rough. say u like making love but sometimes u just want it to hurt?  

Answer 3

be aggressive yourself,,, take charge... he'll get the message. when he's dirty talking start the "oh yeahhs" and get really loud about it. have fun :-) and play safe!

Answer 4

Open communication is the best...Tell him what you like and want when you are making out, and that should help. I hope. He should want to please you.

Answer 5

Don't be embarrassed. The way to get him to be more aggressive is to be more aggressive yourself. Men are turned on by verbal sounds such as moaning and dirty talk. This will rev up his libido quite a bit. Also what you are wearing before love making might help. Nothing like s**y clothes to get a guy going. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

just talk to him and say what you want.  

Answer 7

next time he do it just be very excited and communicate how much you enjoy that

he soon will see the comparason that he get a better response out of you when he is more agressive

that and unless you are able to talk about these things and ask for what you want, then you aint in a stage of the relationship where you are fully ready to be having s*x

so you should be able to just tell him what you want, as he should you (without anyone geting offended)

Answer 8

just do it he wont complain

Answer 9

When you're into it, whisper "harder" or tell him exactly what you want him to do.  Chances are he will be totally up for that!