How do you guys feel about "bigger" girls?

Question

seriously here's the deal,

i'm a senior in high school

i'm on the "chunky" side

but i'm actually pretty.

i mean besides my weight people say i have a beautiful face,

and i've been asked to plus size model before.

so why is everyone so shallow and never gives me a chance?

i'm intelligent, funny, and i like to think that i have a good group of friends

so for once can't a guy be attracted to me?

Answer 1

ok a real nice guy wouldnt look at a girl bbbbecasue of teh way she looks. i dun wanna be mean or anything but if your realli chunky then itll be hard yes but some good guys out there go out with ppl becuase of their personality not their looks.

Answer 2

Keep in mind that a lot of conventionally attractive people also have a very hard time finding a romantic partner--especially in high school.

And don't think that guys aren't attracted to you, just because you haven't gotten hit on.  It's hard for a lot of guys to express their interest in girls--again, especially in high school.

You're a senior?  Planning on college next year?  Once you're in college I bet you'll notice a profound change in your situation.

And "pretty face" is sometimes used as a backhanded compliment--the subtext being "unpretty body."  Just remember that there are a lot of guys who will appreciate and desire you BECAUSE of your body, not in spite of it.

Answer 3

I like big butts and I cannot lie you other brothers might deny....

sorry but people like sir mix alot basically Americans love fat chicks

Answer 4

I tried to date chubby girls with pretty faces and great personalities. It wasn't enough. I was not physically attracted to them. I guess I'm not a chubby chaser at heart.

Answer 5

i think the problem is the guys u may be attracted to. since you are a bigger girl guys want to be with a girl that is smaller than them and they can protect. that being said there are plenty of bigger guys out in the world that will appreciate you as well. So dont limit your options. Dont think of your size as an issue, just think that they accept you completely or not at all, because you shouldnt change yourself for anyone. Dont stress about it too much otherwise youll pressure urself to find a guy, be proud of wat u have because confidence is s**y and guys will be attracted to that.  

Answer 6

In high school most men go for the Barbie doll look.  I am older, and when I met my wife she was on the heavier side, but like you sound, she is so beautiful in everyway both inside and out.  

Don't beat yourself up because you are not being asked out.  There are guys in your school that don't get dates because they are chunky or do not have the muscle body.  I hope you do not ignore them because they are chunky that would be wrong.

See if you are attracted to a guy that does not fit the KEN look.

Answer 7

guys dont like desperate girls unless there desperate themselves

Answer 8

He sadly has morals??? That statment says volumes about you.

Answer 9

i'm more interested in the personality of the person over what they look like

Answer 10

I love bigger girls . Wanna date with me ?

Answer 11

i love bigger girls!!!

Answer 12

Were guys. We like hot bods. However we can still like bigger girls. However if you want a better chance with really hot guys then try and lose some weight...or just tone up.

Answer 13

No problem being attracted to someone a bit bigger. However it is usually good to have someone who enjoys being around people, and also can present themselves in a good manner.

I wouldn't date a girl who was that much younger than me. I'm 17 as well and wouldn't go for a girl any younger than me.