It would take too long to go into the years of problems with this person, but how would you handle a man who is the father of your teenaged child, who has never changed his way of dealing with anything? This is NOT an exaggeration. Nothing is his fault. Everything is mine. If his daughter tries to talk to him about anything he's done to her, he turns it around to talking about me.
She doesn't want anything to do with him, but doesn't want to "hurt his feelings, just in case he really does love me".
As a mom, I hesitate to step in and cut off all communication, and then have it come back on me later that I kept her from her dad.
But, then again, I AM her mom, and should I be keeping her from all of the mental abuse that he causes?
I think I am just too close to the situation. Also, I would like to do the right thing, as we love the Lord, and want to do what's right in His eyes.
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