Once I've said "no" or told the person that I can't/won't do something, s/he waits for the opp to steer me into doing what s/he wants. I don't realize it when it's happening. It's quite annoying and I need a way to change how such people interact with me because I don't want to avoid them. How often I say "no" or warn the person of my unwillingness or inability to do something doesn't matter. S/he tries anyway. These people tend to think that they know best, that what they want isn't harmful anyway, so it's no big deal to get it done regardless of what I've said. I'm not going to explain myself to them, I don't have the patience to play games and I don't have the capacity to think ahead of these people. Any tips on how to deal with them? I don't care about their reasons. I understand the whys and hows. I need to know what to do to make it 101% clear that I'm not one of the ppl they can manipulate like that. Not if they want my company, anyway. :) Thanks
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