How do you increase self-confidence?

Question

It seems to really be an attractive characteristic. I am 18 years old.

Answer 1

That's not an easy one but just remember that no one is perfect.  Even those who you think have all the self confidence in the world have doubts about themselves.  You should love yourself just the way you are.  

Answer 2

i used to feel insecure about myself a few years ago, and i found that if you just stand up straight, keep your head up, and smile you'll look and feel 5X more confident. because i did that, i started to get compliments that raised my self esteem even more :]

hope i helped.

Answer 3

Just believe in yourself.

Answer 4

To increase self confidence you have to do things you dont normally do.  Go up to strangers and start talking to them.  You will feel like it is extremely strange but it will help you feel more confident in meeting new people.  Do things that will make people look at you and then you will have confidence in front of crowds.  Also if you are going into college try to take public speaking classes that also helps alot.

Answer 5

Find out why you don't believe in yourself. I mean really sit down and try to discover why your don't already feel confident. Then try to set goals to get some things that you think would make you confident. Going from unconfident to confident is a long process. Seriously, everyone has at least one reason to be confident, just display that quality in your life and you will feel better about yourself.

Answer 6

Try looking everyone in the eye as you walk down the street, dont be the first to look away

Answer 7

what <:] said, and I got an ebook years ago that really helped me...

www.unstoppableconfidence.com

It's really worth it... I can't even begin to describe how much it changed my life...

Answer 8

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Answer 9

just tell your-self your fine the way your are, convince your self your fine

Answer 10

all you have to do is believe in yourself! but its easier said then done! :)