How do you judge people .. ?

Question

.. based on how they look, their outfit, ... or what?

Answer 1

it's their behavior that tells me most about them.

i look at their appearance  only to see that they are conservative  enough not to be punks or  hubbly bubbly !

Answer 2

ya

their looks and outfit tell a lot about them + the way they walk and the way they talk.... also the words they use tell a lot about them.

Answer 3

personality and whether good or bad and kind. etc like that.

Answer 4

No, I never judged someone because of his look or his way of clothing.. I don't like to judge people until I get to know them better, but when I judge them, then through their behaviour and personality.

Answer 5

the way they talk and behave and personality

Answer 6

judge my self first judge your self then judge ppl beside who am i to judge ppl only god can judge ppl  

Answer 7

I used to be superficial when I was a teen & I was judging people by the way they look & dress ( sometimes by the way they smell :D ) , but now I try not to judge anyone untill I get to know them well.

:o)

Answer 8

you can judge well by thir reactions for events and thir bhaviour

Answer 9

Based on their personality and character.

Answer 10

By their deeds, their sayings and their reactions

Answer 11

it depends on what i m judging them for. is it to hangout with them, to study with them, to befriend them, to choose a mate, or choosing a casher in a hyper market?

This definition defines also the social circle you will interact with them, the time you allow to invest with them, the limits they impose through their looks and attitude, and in the first place what motivates you to deal with them.

For example if you are a doctor, you don't judge your patients social backgrounds, or religious values, or the way they look and talk, you just diagnose (judge) their symptoms. But you don't choose to get into a political speech with them, because they are out of your intellectual social circle. You don't also hang out with them as they are out of your personal social circle.

However a doctor interaction with a patient might develop into a more personal-social interaction, if he accepts (judges) his/her social background and finds it suitable to him. i mean when the nature of the interaction circle changed a new chick-list of evaluation (judge) came in.

Another example: for mate choosing things are totally different.  

Chemistry is important, and it has physical aspects and psychological too. Physical attraction is felt in the first few seconds (scientific fact). the psychological comfort is felt when you feel yourself when talking to this partner and feel comfortable with his/her attitude of talking (very important). and feeling comfortable to his/her looking means you are physically attracted to him/her, you like his/her style of wearing, which means you probably have the same consuming habits, and the same income level (not always actually). Then liking his/her way of talk is a judgment for the values this way of talk reflects. a serious man in his life will talk different from a someone who is not mature. a girl with manners will talk and give different body language from the girl who is not. and this reinforce that.

However this still not enough, these signs are not enough to choose someone, but enough to give yourself and the other partner the chance to explore and discover each other. and this needs time, and needs real life interaction not just soft talks in cafes and cinemas, and see how this partner fits in the way i want to live, the way i want to dedicate to my career, the way i want to raise my children, the way i want to develop my family financial security.

as you see because you are choosing a man/woman to deal with him/her for a life time, and will interact with him/her in a very varied range of life situations, and needs to be the core of your personal circle,>>> you need a lot of time to choose him/her.

on the other hand when you enter a bookshop to buy a book and you need help, you pick a guy from the shop's salesmen who looks decent and patient enough to you in a matter of less than one second: you will deal with him once, for less than a minute, if he said out of topic word he might be fired, limits are defind... and then you feel you choosed the right one for "THIS" task.

Answer 12

Their brain