My husband and I were blessed with a beautiful baby boy a little over 7 months ago. At first, he was not helpful at all, but he has gotten much better since he's been spending a lot of time with us during his unemployment. We've even moved to be closer to his family... which I thought would be great for him, etc.. but it seems that he spends so much more time at his sister's house than he does at home. When ever I need him to help with the baby he claims that he's so busy playing on his computer, but if his sister calls him he's down at her house within 2 minutes. I am not jealous of his sister, but feel like he is putting her first when his son should be. My husband isn't easy to talk to sometimes. When I try to tell him things he will rant about how he is "such a jerk.. it's always my fault".. etc. We were watching a television show last night, Nanny 911-nothing on tv. The wife was a nitpicker, constantly picking. I saw myself in her.. becoming bitter and constantly picking at my husband and kids. I don't want that to happen, but he isn't making it easy. I told him that I wouldn't nag as much if I felt he was listening. I'm not usually one to ask for relationship advice, but if you have any.. can you please help? Thanks!
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