How do you know how meaningful a person is, in your life?

Question

In the past, I had a male friend who my mother said I was so similar to, but there were also qualities, I really baulked at, am I supposed to acknowledge my similarity to him, or accept that there are partly similarities, but in order to find a real soul mate, I have to look further.

Answer 1

This is just my advice... don't accept someone as you soul mate just because you mother says so... In fact, don't even date someone just because you mother says so...

Also, who said your soul mate had to be the *same* as you? Most people actually don't get on well with someone identical to them. Some do, most don't. A good partner is someone you get on with and accept as they are, and are attracted to you. Don't look for a partner based on similar personalities. (Interests, maybe).

You know how meaningful someone is in your life when you've lived all your life. Until then, go on you best guess. If you don't like the person enough, don't want to spend time in their company enough, the relationship's not going to go anywhere. Even if he's similar to you.

Answer 2

Pls do not let ur mum put u

in a situation u wudn't like.

Make the right choices gd luck

Answer 3

To find out how meaningful someone is, try to imagine them NOT in your life. Then you will see how much they really mean to you, and how important they are.

Answer 4

You just do. For a start, when you are ready and willing to make sacrifices for that person, that's when you know that person is meaningful to you.