How do you know if a guy is interested in a girl genuinely?

Question

can a guy kiss a girl's neck and hold her..hold hands, play with her hair, touch her face etc, want to hug and kiss...if there was no real interest? how do you know if its real or just for s*x? I feel sometimes like he just does it for fun, no big deal? do guys do this for fun without ever really thinking about the girl or wanting to be with her? or

does he most probably think about her? Is he serious about the girl or could it mean nothing

Answer 1

Yes, he can be faking it. I know because I've done it. Not a high point in my life but I had my reasons. If you want to know if a guy is interested in you say you want to hold off on any physical contact for 2 months and see how it goes. He may be upset even if he is genuinely interested in you but if he cares for you he'll do it. You could reward him buy chopping a month off if he agrees too :) I know it's a little harsh but if you really care about giving away your virginity or are adamant about not wasting your time on a fling, it might help in weeding out the guys you're not interested in.

"I feel sometimes like he just does it for fun"

Physical interaction between a guy and a girl he loves isn't always like a romance novel either. s*x IS fun and sometimes it's just a blast to do without having to light the candles and do the backrubs etc.