How do you know if someone has a good vibe or a bad vibe?

Question

How do you know if this person is good and there vibe is positive from someone with a bad vibe?

Answer 1

Believe me, you will know. I have seen the Devils face appear on the face of more than one person. Not at the same time of course,and it was all I needed to tell me not to get to know these people any further.Your insides will tell you,and only go by your first thoughts of people. I have learned if you give them another chance, it is only the evil trying to convince you of something that you already know is wrong,is right. Listen to you instincts,it is usually correct.

Answer 2

i have a gutty feeling when i talk or in contact with bed vibe people they make me nervous positive good vibe people spread their positive energy around and i feel relaxed when i talk to them

Answer 3

Since I am an Empath and Psychic for over 23 years professionally, I can just 'feel' the energy eminating from a person, place or thing!

If you feel uneasy, this is a negative vibe.

Answer 4

I'm evidently not a  good judge of this. Someone I thought was a very good person..was a very evil person.And someone I picked up such bad vibes from  and thought was mean and evil was evidently trying to put out bad vibes to warn me of the other person (the one who I thought was so good)  I think the "vibes" might not mean what you think they mean. It depends on what the person is going through. You probably can sense if a person is depressed...but I think if they're good "actors" and know how to hide it..you won't be able to pick up on it. They might be pretending. ..and putting out whatever vibes they want you to pick up on.  Have you never needed help really bad  ...maybe felt you were in danger...and tried to put out vibes to let someone else know? But usually people can't  pick up on it unless they're "sensitives". Even then, they might not say anything about it because they're afraid they're wrong  or that you might not want them to know. Hope this wasn't too confusing.

Answer 5

My experience has been that the more open I am about myself, to myself, the easier it is to "feel" what's up with someone else. Of course I think some of it is visual clues we pick up on, and then there are those chemical messengers that we get but generally aren't aware of. That said, I still think that self honesty is the biggest factor in my ability to read another, and as I did it for a living (counselor) for 21 years, I got pretty good at it.  Of course in the beginning it was often difficult to tell if it was really about the other person, or if I am just projecting my stuff on them. But generally, if you get yourself out of the way, the rest comes pretty easy.

Be Mellow!

Answer 6

"Vibes"or first impressions are notoriously inaccurate.Unless you take the time to get to know a person.You have judged them without evidence.It's unfair to them and unfortunate for you.

Answer 7

You know that something that niggles at you, deep in the pit of your stomach?? That's it, that's where it comes from. I've learned to trust that when it gets proven to me time and time again. Trust your gut.

Answer 8

The "vibe" someone has is not a quantifiable characteristic.  It's a subjective and personal reaction to how the person's attitude or demeanor interfaces with your mood.  One person can get a good vibe off someone while another person gets a bad vibe off that same person.

Answer 9

I'm an ancient who went to college in the 60's when this "good vibe / bad vibe" language thing initially appeared in American English.

First, it didn't mean anything paranormal or even particularly mystical at first, I don't think, but later took on overtones from Hindu or Buddhist philosophy as understood by hippies. A spiritual adept sensed a person's "vibes." No meditation, no developed ability to sense vibes.....loosely putting it.

Second, while the object "a car" is pretty concrete and "real" (at least superficially, "good vibes," and "bad vibes" have now evolved into much vaguer terms and mean quite different things to different people, and perhaps in different social circles. So it follows, that though telling if someone has a good vibe or a bad vibe is usually thought to be somewhat intuitive, and depends on how you've heard it used in your group, the process can differ depending on what g.v. / b.v. means to you.

Third, sometimes "good vibe" / "bad vibe" is a euphemism. It didn't start this way, and in my opinion, this is a debasement, but some people may use it to mean no more than that the person is sexually attractive to them or not.  In other contexts its a signal that one politically disapproves of this person and not to support them. I've run across this in an office I worked for about a decade and a half ago where the executive director was mad at someone and tried (quite successfully as it turned out) to damage their career. When this person was proposed for a job the woman said he had a "bad vibe" and was not suitable. To my mind it was a raw use of power and diametrically opposite to the original usage when I was a student. In fact, she had tried to extort ten thousand dollars from the person to keep his job or be fired; he had paid about three thousand dollars then balked -- quite rightly-- at paying the rest. It appears she then started a campaign against him and within a year or so had gotten him fired from the job.

This isn't much of an answer, but a little here and a little there....

Answer 10

It all depends on how YOU feel around a person.  Another

word for vibe is instinct, or gut feeling.  Always trust your feelings about people, not what other say.

Answer 11

if you have to ask, you will never know, because you feel it. it cant be taught. you may have to learn to tell via other clues. but you are sensitive enough to pick up on ones vibes, or you arent. and the vibes themselves do not lie. differetn feeling for good and bad. but i also have a sense of knowinf that goes along with the feeling, so perhaps thats why i can tell and some others cant.

Answer 12

You just have to go by what you feel.... I myself can't really tell a 'good' or a 'bad' vibe, but I have an uncanny ability to feel when someone is incredibly... not smart. Once I met the friend of someone who works at my mom's house and I just got a really bad feeling about him. I later learned that he had dropped out of school.

If you can't feel vibes, though, I suggest you watch their eyes. If they're shifty and can't stay on one thing too long then they're probably not the best person. If their eyes stay focused on you then they're probably not all that bad, but you would also need to make sure of how they're looking at you.

Hope this has helped!

Answer 13

Hi, that's a really interesting question :)

I believe that determining someone's vibe is done subconciously - it's not even something you realise you're doing.  If you intuitively feel deep down inside that someone is a good, positive person, then you will subconsciously pick up on that vibe and know that they are trustworthy.  Whereas if you intuitively feel that someone is negative or manipulative etc. you will subconsciously come to the realisation that they are to be taken with caution.

For me anyway, it's all based on an intuitive gut feeling.  I generally know in the back of my head within the first 30 seconds of meeting someone whether their vibe is one that I will be compatible with or not.

Just keep in mind that if you are a positive person, you will emit a positive vibe for others to pick up on, and vice versa.

Answer 14

You know when some girl walks in the room and you think "oh geez, she thinks she ALL THAT" then that's negative.

When you meet someone and you're all like "nice to meet you" then there you go. goood vibey.