How do you know if someone is the one for you? people talk of "the spark", what exactly does that feel like?

Question

How do you identify the encounter to be "the spark" if it exists that is....how do you know that that person is the right one and is the One for you... I am 35 years old and single and a virgin and have never had a relationship.

Answer 1

Feelings alone can be deceptive

You really need to get to know each other to be sure

I really recommend a good, lively church, as you see how each other react to the full age range & social spectrum/types of personality

"It's not how fast you 'get off' with someone: it's how well you get on with them"

& that means in the problems & challenges of life too: anyone can be 'happy' when all is fun

Developing your interests is a good way to get to know folk that share them

Hope that helps

Answer 2

If you dont know - then I can assure you you have never had it.

When it comes you wont ever have to ask.

Keep looking now.......