How do you know if someone likes you at school?

Question

Ok well there's this guy at my school that i really like. i never now when a boy is flirting or likes me. I'm always totally oblivious to these kinda things so can anyone help me!!!

Answer 1

Huge amount of eye contact, flirting, tries to make you laugh, tries to impress you, thinks of a subject to talk about with you when there's nothing to talk about and talks to you about it after he comes up with the subject, says dumb things just to keep you talking with him, etc.

It kinda depends on the guy whether he's shy or not. Different types of guys do different things. But if he keeps on looking at you constantly like every minute, it's a huge sign that he likes you for ANY type of guy. But if he looks at you for awhile like once every 10 minutes, he probably just thinks you're attractive and pretty.

- Allows you into his "personal space"

- Always backs you up - supportive

- Apologizes a lot

- Asks both his and your friends about you

- Behaviour generally changes (gets louder or goes quiet when you're around)

- Blinks more than usual in conversation with you

- Calls for random reasons (homework, etc.)

- Compliments you (tells you you smell nice, look nice etc.)

- Doesn't talk / ask for things at all, but will with everyone else (shy)

- Eyebrows raise when they see you (even for a quick second)

- Eyes get "soft" when he looks at you (become "intimate")

- Eyes travel in a circle around your face when he talks to you

- Facial expression changes when he sees you / you're around

- Feet and/or upper body point in your direction

- Frequently touches his face

- Friends aren't really his top priority

- Friends know you, but you don't know them

- Friends pay attention to you after he's been staring

- Friends start talking to you / asking you questions (about him usually)

- Gazes into your eyes with deep interest

- Gives you a nickname

- Gives you his undivided attention

- Hangs around you a lot

- He blushes and/or sweats around you

- He licks his lips (wants to kiss you)

- He will find reasons to talk to you

- Holds his thumbs in his belt loops (cowboy stance)

- If you flirt with him, he flirts back

- If you are in a bad mood, he will try to make you feel better

- Initiates dates

- Is there for you when you're down

- Laughs at your jokes / unfunny things you say

- Listens to you and remembers what you say

- Looks at you when he's talking to other people

- Makes future plans with you (movies on Friday, etc.)

- May act weird around you / seem nervous

- May get the "feeling" he's watching, but can never catch him at it

- May poke you, play with your hair, etc.

- May seem jealous when you look at / talk about other guys

- Mirrors you

- Mouth opens a little when he sees / talks to you

- Nice to your friends (maybe extra nice)

- Plays footsie

- Preens (straightens tie, runs fingers through hair etc.)

- Pupils dilate

- Reacts positively to flirting

- Remembers your name / talking to you etc.

- Remembers little quirks about you that others would easily forget

- Respects you

- Says dumb things just to keep you talking

- Says, "hi," to you a lot

- Seems sad when you ignore him

- Sits / stands in the "open" position (facing you and arms/legs uncrossed)

- Sits up straight and muscles appear firm

- Smiles back when you smile at him (esp. wide)

- Stares a lot (esp. right into your eyes) and holds the stare for longer than usual

- Stutters/mumbles when he speaks to you

- Talks to your friends

- Talks / asks for things (outgoing)

- Teases you a lot (calls you names, etc.)

- Touches you (rubs up against you and the like) "accidentally"

- Tries to hold your hand / touch you "accidentally"

- Voice changes when he talks to you (gets softer)

- Watches your lips (dead giveaway)

- Will act foolish (to get your attention)

- Will do small favours for you

- Will focus on you in a group

- Will hang on your every word / seems to

- Will help you whenever he can

- Will sometimes choose you over his friends

- Will try and hug you whenever he can (when you're mad, sad, etc.)

- Will try to make you laugh (even if it involves him getting hurt)

- Will stare until you catch him (shy)

- Winks at you

- You bump into him a lot of places

Answer 2

Usually you can tell if the boy is near you a lot and talks to and about you more than other girls.

Answer 3

ask him.. it never hurts. if anything you can play the whole 6year old technique and get one of your friends to talk to him or talk to one of his friends. but i seriously think the only way to find out is ask i'm sure you'd rather know than not know at all :] good luck

Answer 4

if he looks at you alot, if he tries to make excuses to be next to you or around you. if he pulls  his wiener out, and ask you to milk it.(jk)

Answer 5

idk but i agree with corinna

Answer 6

if he likes you he will look at you a lot or search you out if in a big group generally be near you as much as possible

Answer 7

they will act stupid around you...lol

Answer 8

if the guy likes yoou he would try to talk to you as much as possible.

or tease you.

or if some of his friends like make fun of him when your around.

then he likes you :]

hopee this helped !

Answer 9

Its a good thing that you put this as a question because i can answer any question! so the way you can tell if a guy likes you is by him telling you he likes you and if he doesnt do that the on aim or some other contact you can be like "yoyo dude i am like just like wondering if u like anyone" then he'll be like "yes babe i like uuu"

Answer 10

tease u and defend you. or they tell their mom and his mom tells my mom then of course my mom tells me. lol he was a really big mommas boy! it was embarassing when is mom was talking to me. fyi i didnt like this guy so i was like eww. the whole time. im 13 btw

Answer 11

well if hes like most guys these days, then he's probably just flirting for the fun of it