How do you know if you can trust someone?

Question

friend-wise.

like i thought i could trust someone but someone else told me that i shouldnt. idk if they're wrong or if i'm wrong! now i'm starting to think that i can't trust anyone but i really dont want it to be that way.

how do you know? help? =/

Answer 1

It takes time to truly trust someone,once you spend allott of time with them you get to understand how they react and interact with others,a good friend will keep your secrets,stand by you no matter what and share their secrets with you,only then can you let your guard down and really trust them.Thanks for the invite,need to go to bed now,thats after i have a look at the stars outside,see ya.

Answer 2

ummm...u can trust sum1 who trusts u back. sum1 who knows u well, nd share secrets. sum1 who doesnt lie. nd its wrong not to trust anybody.  

Answer 3

well the people you can always trust and always should trust are your family members.. you know mother, father,sister,brother,

and anyone else close to you in your family..

after that you can trust the friends you known your whole life

and know they well never lie to you ..

and others that you just know you could trust them ..

:DD

Answer 4

You look at their past behavior to see if they have established credibility with you and others. If someone tells you not to trust them, what is the data backing up their accusation? And does that person have credibility? It's all about credibility!

Answer 5

No its not naive to trust ,however it is hard to trust some  people,What you need to do is give them a chance and if you have a funny feeling or whatever it takes to not trust someone  simply back away from them.simple as that.I think your instincts will tell you.Good Luck plus we never know who we really can trust so its like a test from you to them.Possibly write down from the past what made you not trust ,and if someone crosses that line say bye bye.