How do you know if you have a good husband who will never cheat on you?

Question

what are specific traits? thank you..

Answer 1

Theres no way to know for sure, but the best way to tell, I have learned is that that "He loves me so much that he would never cheat on me" is a bunch of c**p...it's really about what type of person he is, if he has done it in the past he will probably do it again.  If he has good morals and puts family as a top priority he probably won't....another way to tell is look at who he looks up to.  If he looks up to his parents a lot who have been married their whole lives and never cheated, chances are they have planted some good values in him.

Answer 2

You don't ever 'know'.

All you can ever do is learn and use good relationship skills to ensure that your relationship is good and getting better all the time.

Answer 3

My husband will never cheat on me..at least that is what i convinced myself of..lol

No really, I would be really surprised if I found out that he cheated on me. We have a good marriage. As far as specific traits, I don't think there are any. Just keep your eyes open, my husband has never given me a reason to be suspicious of him.

I don't think that all men are bad...i think the few ruin it for the many.

Answer 4

No guarantees but if you connect often and have fun together often it is unlikely.  Oh yeah, and try to only say no to s*x if you really have a good reason.

Answer 5

You don't. The only think you can do is keep him happy. Don't try to change him. He is the man you married, he shouldn't need any improvement. Good Luck!

Answer 6

not all men are bad but you never know have you ever heard abaut trust no men.

Answer 7

You will never know for sure.

Answer 8

You don't know that.  There are no such guarantees in life.  You either trust your partner and believe them to be loyal or you don't.  If you doubt their commitment, then you shouldn't marry them.

Answer 9

Not all men are bad.

Google the song "its in his kiss"

Answer 10

You don't "know." And he doesn't "know" that you will never cheat, either. But here are some good signs:

1. He never has in the past with anyone.

2. He respects you and treats you right.

3. He has a healthy and positive view of women in general.

4. He is offended or annoyed by others who cheat.

5. You two have a healthy and happy s*x life of your own!

Answer 11

u can never really know what will happen,a good predictor of what a person will do is to looking into their past and see how they treated others they once loved.there are men who would never cheat,but then there are some who if given the right circumstances, and if they were being pursued would.with every relationship u take the risk and if it happens u have to make a decision to stay or go.a good man will give u the benefit, all the advantage, in spite of what circumstances are going on.also look at his belief in god, a godly man will have a different belief system.

Answer 12

You just have to trust that you have picked a good one. There are no specific traits.

Answer 13

NO not all men are cheaters and not all women are cheaters. You can never tell, only God knows that. Is not like cheaters have a bar code on their forehead that you can scan to find out if they're likely to cheat. Just gotta take a chance and hope for the best.  

Answer 14

The biggest trait is that you can trust them and that they trust you.

Answer 15

You rite all are not bad....but you never know what can go wrong when....but now you are the one who has to choose the rite one....if there is some one who really loves u & can do anything to see u smile....keep you away from all pains....and you can do the same for him...then i guess he will never cheat on you.

Answer 16

I agree about having morals.  Some people have high morals and others don't.  My husband isn't the type to cheat.  He's so honest he corrects people if they give him the wrong amount of change (I know ton of people who pocket the money and come up with a ton of reasons to validate it.  My Dad mentions something about taxes).  And his honesty has brushed off on myself and made me a better person.  I was pretty much raised that guys only think with one thing and that they'll cheat.  My Dad's advice before I was married was to take him back if he cheats on me (we hadn't even married yet and we hadn't had any major fights or anything).  I thought all guys were this way (I've been told for years that guys think only with one thing and it was somewhere down below.  I'm not sure if that was my Dad's way as a single parent to discourage relationships when I was younger or what) so I was ultra paranoid when we first got married, he wasn't allowed to look at another girl.  Then I started to realize, that no, not all guys are like that and my husband was definitley not going to cheat on me because he's just not that type of person.  It took me a long while to trust and ever since I have started really trusting him, my marriage has gotten way better.  It's hard work worrying and stressing out all the time.  Unless he's given you a reason (a change of behavior) think positive.  

Answer 17

we're all bad deep down :)

Answer 18

U must be young...of course it's true.

There's no specific traits or way to prepare for it, it just is bound to happen.

Put it this way, if your man says/does 1 super tiny thing to ever remotely make you "wonder" if he would (not even HAS)...then YEP he sure WILL.