How do you know if your man is cheating?

Question

i know it may be a lame question but i am very confused at the moment! have you been cheated on? what were the signs? what made you suspicious?

Answer 1

My Ex was a good person gave me everything treated me well, but unfortuanatly i had no clue or even suspected infedelity,I found out later after breaking up w/ him that  he actually enjoyed going to strip clubs and completing the night w/ visits from his ex who was a stripper. they  would leave at maybe midnight and he would show up at my house aroung  3:30ish am. some nights and then sometimes he would call me and say he wanted to stay at home as he had to work early, but like i said i had no clue that he was cheating so i believed him and trusted that he really had to be at work the next morning and being that i lived so far away from his job i didnt think twice.

I guess once a person decide move in a home together you can kind of see how they live and their daily routine, a change in routine can be the first indication that something is going on, maybe not cheating but  definatly something. A Clue would be that  he will dress better and be sure to sprinkle a dad bit more of that smell good when he is not w/ you, extra time at work, or maybe holding back quality time to do more "important" things w/ friends. Either way you probably wont be sure right off  the bat, But i say trust your gut always and dont be too sure it can happen to you!!