How do you know what you feel for him?

Question

if you say that you dont like him anymore

but then there are things that just remind you of him.

eg, songs, people, places, things etc.

i even dream about him since a year ago. and havent stopped liking him since. but i said that i only wanted to be friends because i think that he might have though too much ahead of what i was.

i wouldnt even consider us friends anymore, because he just seems so uneasy and uncomfortable around him.

i say that i dont like him and that he's out of my mind but these dreams are just driving me crazy and the fact that he just isnt completely gone from my mind.

do i still really like him? i dont think i feel as much for him as before though.

its so awkward between us.. i feel as though talking to him pushes me away. sigh*

what should i do??

Answer 1

You should either tell him how you feel if you want to be with him, or just give it time.  Trust me, time will heal you.

Answer 2

It's weird I was in almost this exact situation so I know what you are going through. And I get it IT SUCKS! But I would try and pursue it because I am now going out with the person it happened to me with. Don't get me wrong just because you start going out with him doesn't mean it magically gets better you still have to work at not being awkward but it gets better.