How do you know when a Cancer has let their entire "guard" down?

Question

How do you know when a Cancer has let their entire "guard" down?

Answer 1

When we start telling you about all the stupid mistakes we have made and about all the mushy dreams we have...

OH! And, if a cancer says... ILY... You can pretty much bet their guard is down.

Answer 2

just remember cancers want what they can't have and once they get it they don't want it any more..

Answer 3

when they tell you things that you know they havent told many people before

Answer 4

When they confide in you everything that happens to them.

im a cancer and i have only 1 or 2 people that i have let my guard down with, and even then i am cautous - because we are soo sensitive we like to keep a shell up.

but a gentle understand friend we will open up with over time, it takes us a while to trust =)

good luck!

Answer 5

When they tell you everything you want to know.

I am a Cancer myself and find myself reluctant to give away too many personal details on the first few meetings.

I personally, wait a long time to know someone before I tell them almost everything.

Only 3 people so far in my life have achieved that status, and have worked hard to get there.  You need to make sure that you work with their whole emotional development to let them bring you closer in.