How do you know when a man is really into you? How do you know when a man loves you?

Question

How do you know when a man is really into you? How do you know when a man loves you?

Answer 1

Hmmm...mostly in the guy's words I'd say. My ex (well...he loved me, but I didn't feel the same...we're still friends though..I wish I'd felt the same way, because he was beyond sweet) would say things randomly like:

"When I met you, I had to grow a second heart because one couldn't hold all the love I felt"

and

"You're my light in the darkness"

...those may sound corny, but they really make me feel wanted

Then, when we'd play video games (since I repeatedly die through stupid things like running off cliffs and stuff), he'd call  himself my Guardian and rushes in to kill the bad guys.

I don't know, but you can kind of sense their adoration and devotion, and how it never changes even over time, and feel their eyes on you. They never intentionally cause you discomfort or heartache, and never push you past your comfort zone.

lol, this may sound strange to some, but he also quoted Edward from Twilight--my fictional husband XD--and called me "love" and stuff because he knew it made me melt lol

*blushes* oh gosh, that really sounds mushy, doesn't it? It actually made me blush to write that, lol

Answer 2

When a guy is REALLY into a girl the girl gets what she is NOT wanting.

1. Books the next date meer mins after the first.

2. Calls a Zillion times a day

3. Sends flowers

4. Is at your door step every chance he gets

5. Writes love letters.

Take your pick

Answer 3

The problem with this is that if we show that we're really into a girl, we often get dumped. We're expected to be non-emotional thanks to society.