How do you know when it's more than just lust or physical attraction/infatuation?

Question

How do you know? Does it still count if you haven't seen them in forever and you were never actually "with" them, but it still hurts to not see them everyday? You still think about them everyday and you worry about them, their happiness, if they're healthy, etc...What do you think it means when somebody means the world to someone else?

Thanks!

Answer 1

That sounds like my definition of love. But they found someone before you found those feelings. If it meant to be it will happen. I swear.

Answer 2

im at collge and i feel this way about a girl back home. although shes not my gf or anything i cant stand not seeing her or knowing how and what shes doing. when you feel like this you legitamately care about a person. its easily more than a physical attraction even if she/he doesnt feel the same way about you

Answer 3

While that may seem like love, it's always possible that if the two of you started dating, you'd decide they're not really the person you thought they were, and you wouldn't feel that way anymore.

I say that if your feelings last 6-9 months in an exclusive relationship, and you still want to see him/her on a regular basis, love is definitely in sight.

Answer 4

It sound TRUE love to me.

You have to do something about it, before it's too late.

You need to find a way to be able to get near and talk to her/ him and see how both feelings grow.

For me, man should always do the first move.