How do you know when someone is right for you?

Question

I know this is the question we all ask ourselves. I have found a man that I have known for about 13yrs now. We lost contact, then dated, then broke up becuase I left him for another to get married!!! Never got married ended up pregnant though and left him becuase hes a bad man. This guy I love got back together with me and was there the whole pregnancy and more. We have been together for about a year and I just couldnt see myself with anyone else. He is my dream come true. But unfortunately I lied to him about someone I was with right before we got together. I was never truly honest with that because I didnt want to ever hurt him or give him reason to doubt my love for him. How wrong was I??? So now we are not doing very well and hes thinking about leaving me. I cant imagine my life without him and hes all I want. How do I know what I am feeling is real? How do you know when that person was meant for you?

Answer 1

Some people call it a "gut" feeling, but I prefer to say follow your heart.  It's really not necessary to confess all your sins, so to speak.  If you did something you feel guilty about when you were not together, you don't owe him any explanations.  What would be the point of clearing your conscience if it would mean hurting him or making him distrust you?  Concentrate on the relationship you have with him now, and see if you can resolve whatever it is that is spoiling it.  By giving him all your love, devotion and attention, that will more than make up for the past.  Leave the past where it belongs-- in the past!  Good luck!  

Answer 2

Sounds like you don't know what your looking for..

From experience you should realize if you feel right for that person or not. Basically you should just know right away if he is right for you from the start. You gotta make the choice. Good luck...