How do you know when someone really cares about you?

Question

In a world where everyone is after things for themselves, how do you know when someone truely cares about you?

And why is it that the people we thought that cared about us really did not?

And must we learn the hard way? Is that the only way we can found out if someone is truely there for us?

Answer 1

I think the only real way to find out is truly, the hard way. Life isn't easy.

Answer 2

The question little one is why should you  want to know...You have to take a chance.   In this day and age people get caught up in so many things and forget  about what really matter in the end...

Answer 3

Yeah, the hard way is the only way to really know. When your stuck in a situation when someone has the chance to really put themselves aside and prove they care about you, they either will or they won't. There isn't a grey area in times like that in my opinion.

Answer 4

Very interesting, I dont think i know the answer.

I know that when you trust people and put your life in their hands, hopefully they care about you

The only beings i know that care about me are God, my parents, and my dogs

everyone else, im not so sure about

Answer 5

You look at what they DO, not hear what they SAY.

Answer 6

wow ur really depressing. just get a life already

Answer 7

you never no. care only about yourself, that is what matters most.

Answer 8

keanu reeves - follow the white rabbit

Answer 9

simba, follow your heart

Answer 10

Water seeks its own level.

Time will tell.

Answer 11

they do things that may seem mean but really it is to keep you from being harmed, or to keep you on the right path

they know when something is really important to you and will bee with you till the end.

they will saty up with you for the whole night talking

they will put their life on hold to conince you not to do something

there is alot more, but you can tell when someone truley cares. just observe with your heart not your mind.

when you look into their eyes you can see that they love you no matter if it is a romantic relationship or a friend relationship