How do you know when to move on? ?

Question

Well.. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years this September. We were WONDERFUL for about 6 months and then last year about this time we started arguing a lot. Then about the one year mark, (September 2007) on we stopped having s*x (unless I begged or it was super short and sweet and few and far between) He seemed distant and cold and I was uncomfortable most of the time and bent over backwards trying to please him or win him back over. I did not work, he decided in May that he no longer wanted to be with me and we moved into separate houses and spent a lot of money that we did not have moving and deposits, gas, storage etc... well within 6 days he was sending me flowers at work and begging me to come back to him. We found a new and better house and moved into it.. things were great and we were moving forward... NOW 2 months later we are back in the same boat.... we have been arguing, he is cold and distant and of course no more s*x.. AGHHHH!!!! I think I am beyond all of this and I want a REAL man that is respectful and loving and wants someone that appreciates him.. WHAT DO I DO? I dont want to waste another year or any more time trying to please this man... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I would move on.  Sounds like he's not ready for a live-in girlfriend.

Answer 2

It's over, so now you need to move out into your own place again, waste more money and time. Problem solved!

Answer 3

Chemistry just isn't there anymore. Its not either one of you guys faul,t just make a clean break. Be brave  be strong you can get through it.

Answer 4

Sounds like he is messing with your head.. If I were you, I would just tell him either take me as I am.. or leave because Im tired of not having s*x and arguing all the time.

good luck (;

Answer 5

It sounds like when he doesn't have you, he wants you.  But when he does have you, he couldn't care less.   Move on!  Why put yourself thru this over and over again.  There are good men out there who's affections run constant.  Who needs this game playing?

Answer 6

move on if you don't want to waste any more time.

Answer 7

If he did it once, chances are he'll do it again. And look he's doing it again. Stop wasting time. Find someone new. Good luck!!

Answer 8

Move on, dump him!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Move on...he's playing games with you.