How do you know when you're g*y?

Question

Since a couple of years ago I met a lot of people who say they're Bisexual or g*y in school and on the internet. They usually range from my age to about 25 years old.

People need to distinguish between 'finding someone attractive' and actually falling in love with someone. If you've ever heard the phrase 'we're all a little g*y' they mean that EVERYONE has thought of a person of the same s*x attractive. THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU LOVE THEM. THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU'RE g*y OR BI.

Also, if you're a girl, I'm sure you think girls are s**y and a turn on. It's a wide known fact; every girl feels that way. But real lesbians don't. There's a difference between liking b***s to loving their soul and heart.

If you've had a dream about someone and think you like them now, that's most likely not true. Dreams are always realistic; things that don't scare you in real life might scare you in a dream because your brain is forcing you do feel that way.

Its your BRAIN, not your HEART.

If you really do think you're g*y or bi, WAIT UNTIL YOU ACTUALLY HAVE A CRUSH ON A GUY/GIRL.

Answer 1

Nice rant. Not exactly polite to go telling people how they're meant to feel and how they're meant to label themselves, is it?

I agree people who claim they're bi when they're just doing it for attention is irritating, but at least they're likely to grow out of it and quit it eventually.

And there is a difference between noticing someone is attractive and being attracted to them. My sister quite often says she thinks girls are attractive, but that doesn't mean she has any urge to have a relationship or go to bed with a girl-I do, and that's how I know I'm bi (not just that, obviously, but you know what I mean-it's just totally different).

And excuse me Jasmin, but just because in your opinion most of the people you've met who claim to be bi are just doing it for attention, it doesn't mean there's no such thing as bisexuality. There's enough stigma attached to being bi as it is (and no it does not just equal '****'. I'm still waiting for the right person to come along before I have s*x and I'm bisexual) without people just denying bisexuality outright.

Answer 2

While in university part of my curriculum was psychology and Core Humanities, both having lectures and assignments concerning Human Sexuality.

Over several decades studies combined done by top researchers in all parts of the world came to these findings:

1 out of 10 humans globally are bi/g*y.

75% of males (can't remember female scores) have had 1 or more same s*x experience in their life (varying ages of individuals experimentation for one reason or another: ages from young boys, tweens, teens, young adults, adults to old men), are straight; most married with children.

Based on a true/false scale of 15% ratio.

Also, many conversations and debates with clergy of different cloths (most agreeing) with, and the findings of leading psychiatrists and other medical doctors, researchers and scientist of the Human Development of Mankind, and anthropologists agree upon this:

A human is born bi/g*y, it is not a choice, illness, disease, birth defect, anyone’s fault (such as parental genes), culture based, promoted by another human or a sin. For that person it is natural and normal.

Every human has the right to love and be loved no matter what gender they happen to be drawn to

Answer 3

ok so i know am g*y and not just an attraction i was in love with a guy and i was to deep in  he moved away  and i broke down for 3 years i was so depressed things went hay wire so yeah i deffiently know im g*y

Answer 4

Well...   How do you know you are g*y?   This is a Big Question.  it is very scary for young teens entering a confusing time in theirs lives.  Throw a sexual attraction to the same s*x on top of that and you can have a disaster. There isn't readily available support for young teens to cope with a sexuality that is VERY different from the accepted social Norm!!  This is why there is a HIGH Suicide rate with g*y teens.  Teens who are dealing with the new urges of teen hormones that are lucky enough to be attracted to the opposite s*x only have to deal with the usual confusion that society will understand and support.  I believe this confusion for g*y teens may lead some to say they are bisexual could be natural instinct to protect themselves from a cruel society!  WHO would chose to be ridiculed and laughed at?  I Believe that when someone says they are Bi-sexual they are ...for the most part not ready to commit PUBLICLY what their true sexual attractions lie.  i am not saying that there are not true bisexuals around ...But for the most part people tend to like one s*x.  

    As far as LOVE and sexual preference ...Love has nothing to do with my sexual preference.  I love many women...YET...I do not have sexual feelings towards them.   LOL   However,  I did  not feel love for a man and was VERY sexual attracted to him.  I think a SEXUAL DRIVE is just that..  There doesn't have to be deep fond feelings attached  I also think 2 girls will kiss each other around groups for the thrill of the reaction of people around them instead of true  intimate feels shared between 2 people

Answer 5

You have a good point but the thing is thats what it's all about, being atracted buy the same s*x or both. People come to that because the see (in a guy) that a woman does not seem atractive but guys are and that's when he is g*y, of corse he is not gonna fall inlove at first sight but it's mostly all about likes.

Answer 6

There is a huge different between noticing that someone is attractive and being attracted to the person. I can acknowledge when a female is attractive, but I'm not physically attracted to them. Straight people can do this, too, most are just too insecure to accept the thought. I know that I'm g*y. Well, I know what my orientation is. I've thought about it a lot and discovered that, while I am physically and emotionally attracted to guy, I can have emotional feelings for a girl. I'm not physically attracted to females, and it's pretty rare for me to have a crush on one, though. I've dated... three girls, one of them was just a random thing that I didn't really understand and the other was for appearances. Both of those in eighth grade. I've only dated one girl that I've actually liked. I've dated two guys, and have had what I would call non-exclusive relationships with a few others. Those weren't just us having s*x, though. I didn't actually have s*x with any of those. We just liked each other a lot, but never got to the dating part.

I like the way you think, by the way. =]

Answer 7

lol first off if u have to ask ur self that then most likely but when people are born , they know (most) or eventually they figure it out in young teens

Answer 8

"I'm sure you think girls are s**y and a turn on. It's a wide known fact; every girl feels that way"

I'd agree that every girl can appreciate a s**y girl but I wouldn't say it's a "wide known fact" that every girl finds other girls a turn on. If girls turn you on, you're not completely straight. Sometimes girls do it for me - I don't see myself as bi but at least I admit to not being completely straight.

Answer 9

Actually, the only thing the heart does is pump blood through your system.

EVERYTHING about us and our personalities is in the brain.

Answer 10

I'm a female and I don't find any females attractive. I think that is disgusting. I had a lot of bi sexual friends in high school, and you will come to realize that 90% of females who claim to be "Bi" are only doing it to get attention from guys.  They usually don't even like other females, they only do it to impress guys. Bi sexual is just another word for ****. They crave the attention of men so badly that they will do anything to get it. You're either g*y or straight and thats it.

Answer 11

thanks for the lecture. I'm sure you mean well, but I don't think that sexuality is something that can be so easily regulated. I mean, I get annoyed at fake bisexual girls as much as the next L*****n, but if that's how they want to identify I don't think there's a lot you can do about it.

Answer 12

I do love my boyfriend. I wouldn't have been with him for almost 4 years if I did not love him and was only attracted to him.

There's your answer, put it in your pipe and smoke it sweetcheeks!

You get nothing, you lose, good day ma'am!