How do you know when you C U M?

Question

like after having s*x,,how do u kno wen u C U M?? like for girls does it just leak out? or whats it look like?

Answer 1

well you see lots of white gooie stuff in your pants



if your wearing any lol xxgood luckxx

Answer 2

You usually know during, a series of strong contractions. Some women ejaculate others do not. You seem young, so keep in mind that teen s*x usually involves and focuses on male satisfaction. Go it alone and remember guys don't know what the heck they are doing and usually so focused on their own gratification that they don't care about yours. Not to mention STDs and pregnancy.

Answer 3

Number one it will feel really intense, sometimes it just leaks, sometimes it will squirt.

Answer 4

Girls and guys have different ... eh ... secretions. When guys o****m they have white or clear ejaculate. Girls get wet when they get turned on and that its technically what girls c*m is. When girls o****m thats a different story. Girls normally dont ejaculate so that wouldnt indicate if you had an o****m. But usually if you do you know .... you can feel it, and it usually is accompanied by muscle spasms.  

Answer 5

Well only some women actually "c um" in the sense that sexual fluids are squirted from the v****a. Many women just get really wet, and yes...it kind of leaks out...

For the women who just experience an o****m w/o "c um" squirting: it's just one of those things that you just KNOW when it happens. It's super intense, and there's a release.

Answer 6

It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach o****m... both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine.

Just before o****m, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your o****m first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your v****a and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your v****a, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.

During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee). The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is.

(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen... some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)

As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, and you might feel sort of like having a nap... or like just lying there and letting your mind drift... or perhaps even like doing it again.

One thing you can do to find out is check out this webpage:

http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation_ho...

Read the page all the way through, and try some of the things suggested (including the "extras" linked at the bottom). Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you... it's fun. Sooner or later, you'll have an o****m, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.

Then you'll know what having one is like, for sure.

Have fun and don't worry. Masturbation is having s*x with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second. It's normal and healthy, learning what pleases you sexually is good for you, and when it comes to having s*x with the one you *want*, you'll be able to tell them (or to show them if you like) the things you like best.