How do you know when you should seek help getting pregnant?

Question

i have endometerisos. i have had three surgeries and found out that i have one tube that works and one that doesn't. we have had unprotected s*x for almost four years now and never got pregnant once. this last surgery was done by a specialist and he said that i should have no problem getting pregnant on my own.

Answer 1

discuss it w/ ur ob/gyn.  ask for tips to stack the deck in ur favor.  and if u have been try for 4 yrs something is happening.  has he been checked?  he could have a low sperm count.  or ur sperm antibodies could be too high.  it could be anything.  go talk to ur doc.

Answer 2

After 4 years I would see a fertility specialist a get a complete check up of both you and your spouse/partner.  If he's never been checked he could have a low sperm count too so that's why you should both be checked.  Wanting a baby is so hard when it doesn't happen.  I've been there (I have PCOS).  I wish you good luck and hopefully you will be holding that beautiful baby soon.  

Answer 3

just don't give up.  You can go see a Fertility doctor if you would like.  But I had nothing wrong with me, husband and I tried for 6 1/2 years before finally getting pregnant.  But we paid lots of money to go through all the fertility testing (because most insurance companies don't cover it) and nothing was wrong with either of us.  When it's your time, its your time.  Good luck.