How do you know your still in love with your ex husband? ?

Question

we were married at a young age and then i divorced him..not because i did not love him just cause of other reasons....then got married again -which was stupid and divorced him ended back at my first husbands house , he always wanted to get back together but timeing was bad, then when i finally wanted to get back together i did not tell him how i felt we were hanging out again and flirting and he would try to get with me sexually but i did not want to start it out like that...so i didnt ...he had friend that he was helping out - with letting her do laundry and take showers at his house then i guess they ended up sleeping together and he got her pregnant and then he married her...i waited for a while to see if it would fall apart...but time went by and i gave up and i recently married....and now he is divorced and it is driving me crazy...

Answer 1

Sounds like you are still in love with him. But then again, ask yourself this....would you be with him if he wasn't wanted or with other women?

Maybe you are attracted to the fact that he is not available, maybe deep down you do love him and always will. I guess really you know the answer to that one. But God has a funny way of telling us when something is just not right for us in the long run...that's why you two keep being available at odd times....it just is meant to be what it is. Sometimes having just a friendship is nice too because then there are no worries of the relationship problems....Good luck and maybe when he is ready, you both will end up together in the end........  

Answer 2

your life is complicated. I think, the best is give yourself a break from all these relationship thing. Live life by yourself to search what you really want in life. Be independant n not hanging unto someone for your happiness.  

Answer 3

when u ask this question

Answer 4

You definitely still love him, but the question is do you love him enough to give up what you have now? Does he feel the same way about you? If both of you agree that you want to be together then go for it and good luck with it. If you do decide to get back with your ex please be open and honest with your current husband. Don't lead him on and play games because that will only lead to more problems.

Answer 5

Wow...you two just need to stop the madness and lay it all out on the table.  Be honest and put it out there.  Sounds like you both need some resolution.

Answer 6

It didn't work with the two of you together (twice), and neither of you were able to work it out with other people.  I think it's time for both of you to move on and do some soul searching to find out why all of your relationships fail.

Answer 7

Do you love your current husband?  Enough to stay with him over your first?  If so you need to let it go (your first) and move on. If you want this to last you will be honest with your current husband and stay away from the first one. Don't put yourself into that position, you married this guy of your own free will and I assume that you love each other... if so be true to him.

There is a reason things happen and it's obvious that fate is telling you that you don't belong together.

Answer 8

If you're not happy in your current marriage and you don't think you can work it out, then cut your losses now. If you are just wanting to go back to your ex because he is free and it's familiar territory don't do it, especially while he is still getting over his marriage.

Answer 9

oh so sorry to hear this.

rethink what you want o do and follow your heart.