How do you let a guy down?

Question

he's liked me for so long and he told me im everything to him and im so amazing and stuff, but i really just dont feel the same. and the problem is i tend to lead him on a little at first when i dont mean to. like whenever im feeling upset or lonely ill talk to him and then he ends up confessing how he likes me and wants to be with me and then I go with it for like a day and then realize how i really dont feel the same, and ive probably done it like 3 or 4 times before and I feel so bad about it and i really dont wanna upset or hurt him. what do i do?

Answer 1

You have to be completely honest with him.  It will hurt him, but he will eventually get over it and realize there are more fish in the sea.  It's better to do it sooner than later.