How do you love someone?

Question

I am scared I don't know how to love, I can be so self centered, but self destructive too, so I don't even love myself half the time let alone others. Any advice?

Answer 1

well,

how loving someone is practiclly showing them you care and just being there for eachother through rough times.

and if your self centered thats alright too if you really love a boy/girl chances are you wont be really self centered and you will care about them too.. and if they love you too they wont care if you are or not.

you will know when you love someone; and when you do you will know how to love them:)

Answer 2

you gotta know how to love yourself before you know how to love someone else. i think, though, that you may be overanalyzing. Caring about anyone beyond the rational level is 'love'. ie when you do something for free, its love.