How do you make someone understand that you want nothing to do with them?

Question

Thanks Tine, but I don;t know any big muscular guys. In fact, I'm pretty much on my own, good reason for they have got me on my own.

Answer 1

why dont you just stop talking to them

Answer 2

Is this is your neighborhood?  Take a diff route to everywhere.

Ignore the mind games....don't respond, not even the slightest none.

Is this in school,  change clases...........relocate your locker, etc.

Answer 3

Keep your message clear and concise, tell them why and don't get emotional about it.

Answer 4

harrassment is an offence punishable by law.....if this person is bothering you that much, then perhaps this is your only option.   as you dont go into detail as to what the problem is, it is hard for one to give advice.

Answer 5

Easy answer, get an injunction explain that the person is driving you nuts or something...but really this belongs in relationships or mental health section....

Answer 6

Maintain a strong mind.  Once you've made yourself absolutely clear you must ignore the person at all costs.  Stalker types are so deluded they see *any* attention from you as good attention.  So you must be a blank slate to them.

Answer 7

If all else fails a knee to the nuts works good. That says it all.  He'll quit bothering you after a few good whacks to the groin.

Answer 8

eff off is always a good starter

Answer 9

Some people can't understand.  That's why we have restraining orders.  If the person is whacked then you might need one.

You can move far away or just ignore them.

Answer 10

What did they do to you? If it was something bad you should really tell them straight and stern. If it isn't serious such as teasing you can talk to them normally.

Answer 11

Threaten them with a restraining order.

Answer 12

you have to totally lose it.  " **** off *****, i told you already i want nothing to do with you, you ******* *****, you are messing with my brain and just about doing my ******* head in now, if you don't p**s off i'm going to have a vendetta against you and all of your filthy offspring as long as i live."  without drawing breath, ought to do it !

Answer 13

Invite a few muscular looking bikers to accompany you, they don't have to say much just stand by you, and then tell this person you better leave me alone.........;)

Answer 14

tell em straight and just try and stop any kind of contact. if its a scary thing, then go to the police

Answer 15

Did you actually try talking with this person and explain to them how you feel? Probably they're just asking for your forgiveness.

Answer 16

I think you're in the wrong section. I think you want the Psychology section or maybe the Mental Health section...or even Singles &Dating section. I copied a definition of parapsychology for you below:

Parapsychology (from the Greek: παρά para, "alongside" + psychology) is the study of ostensibly paranormal psychological phenomena. Phenomena studied include extra-sensory perception, psychokinesis, and survival of consciousness after death; parapsychologists call these phenomena psi, a neutral term non-suggestive of what causes the phenomena or experiences.

EDIT..Can't you get a Restraining Order on him?

EDIT....I don't know what "sth" means. Are you saying that these are "spirits" that are bothering you? Or..are they people in a cult? You need to explain who "they" are so we can try to help you.

Answer 17

Is there some reason you are forced to be in her (you said it wasn't a man) presence? If not, stay away. If so, why? What is the context of your proximity? Are she a co-worker? A family member?

Is this person actively or purposefully creating the contact in which they are "messing with your mind"?

BTW, what do you mean by "messing with you mind"? One can only do that to you if you allow their words or deeds to even have meaning, let alone truth.  Imagine someone was trying to mess with your mind but was speaking a language of which you had absolutely no understanding; how much affect could they have on you?

In any case, if she is purposefully harming or offending you - even if she does it negligently, while there may not be anything the police can do, you may have grounds to bring a lawsuit for intentional, or negligent, infliction of emotional distress.

However, these are very difficult causes of action to win. Maybe you should toughen up and quit allowing other people to affect you. The only way they can is if you let them.

Answer 18

well, i would just be straight up w/ them. I

Answer 19

some people can not take no for an answer

so there is not much you can do

except hope it will get into there thick little minds one day and they wake up to the real life and realise IT

been there done it got the T-SHIRT

i was one of those thick twits

who had to realise this

also HAD IT THE OTHER WAY ROUND

IT IS NOT NICE EITHER WAY

all i can say is best wishes

hope it works out for you

Answer 20

Perhaps a really good Kick in the Family Jewels would help you get your message across to them?

Answer 21

Tell him you have galloping crabs and you caught them off a syphilitic, schizophrenic and you have a F-nny like a blue whale only it turned a funny shade of green after you had baboon.

Answer 22

Stay away from this person and cut of any and all contact with them.  They sound very manipulative, disrespectful and cruel.

If necessary move or get a restraining order

Answer 23

A pitchfork in the guts is fairly convincing

Answer 24

u go to them & tell them striaght up & tell them 2 listen

Answer 25

so you got a lot of compassionate answers.

most - if not all - advise for radical, violent action.

have you tried putting yourself in their shoes?

tried to figure out what's in their mind, since you asked this in the 'para-psychology' section? and find the answer you're looking for acting from their perspective?

have you tried to think of what would make them leave you alone from their perspective instead of your perspective?

Answer 26

After you knock them to the floor, they should know.

Answer 27

tell them you dont like them and then ignore them.

Answer 28

I find F*** off usually works!!