How do you make the right decision?

Question

You have two options, but why is it so hard to choose between the logical one, or the emotional one, one that is wrong and one that is right, but why do we tempt fate?

Answer 1

There are no right decisions. We can only be certain that they're right after seeing its results. It is very hard to choose between logical and emotional decisions because people are by nature emotional. That's why we fall in love head over heels, you know and the likes. We can disregard our conscience but too hard to keep anger, pain, happiness etc. But when you feel you need to decide between two great options weigh them according to their value. Which is more valuable, which is more crucial, which es lesser evil and dangerous, which is more satisfying and so on and so forth. It's choosing a higher value over a lower value.

Answer 2

Well, its like --why do we pay to get on a roller coaster?

When I was young, I made a lot of emotional decisions. Sooner or later your logic kicks in and you realize you made a mistake.

But if you ignore your emotional decision, and stick with logic.. you dont find experience the exciting, taboo, and risque' things.  It all becomes quite serious.    But you'd probably been better off not experiencing the taboo.

I guess it how we wise up !

And learn logic.

Answer 3

My heart and my head used to be at war 24/7 and a huge argument goes on. You may find that sometimes the emotional choice is right and vice verse.. Decision making is a learning curve. Don't be afraid to make the wrong choice, You can make the right choice again. Don't be afraid to fail. Just be honest with yourself. And don't be so hard on yourself. We make choices everyday. For example, I buy a dress. After a short time, I have gone from really loving it to very much disliking it. .. so it had a short life span in my wardrobe. That's life!! We are complex beings.

Answer 4

well I've been searching for that answer a long time and haven't truly found it. Now I'm not an expert at this but the emotional one causes your brain to "bath" in dopamine witch is a kind of natural drug and makes you feel very good, the logical one leaves your brain dry :) and you and I and everybody choses the pleasant way, regardless of the unpleasant later consequences. It's a psychological effect, there's nothing you can do about it. The only way you can choose the right way is to isolate you from all the wrong, bad, emotional options  

Answer 5

Excitement, danger on one hand and dull, humdrum existence on the other.