My girlfriend wants to start doing some sexual role playing, but whenever we try to do this, I am simply not able to do it. She will suggest that we each play a certain role and after saying one or two things, I can't do anything. Mentally, my thought processes just "lock up" and don't really know what to say or do after that. I don't really have of my own any fantasies where I want to pretend to be another person, so I think part of the problem is that I can't connect to her "need" to want to do this, but I also think there is a part of me that just feels inhibited (maybe scared or shy? not sure really) about doing it. She does a lot of things that I ask her to, so I really want to do this to make her happy, but for some reason I just have a mental block when we try to do this. Any suggestions on how I might be able to "loosen up" so that I don't feel awkward about doing this?
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