How do you pick between two guys who you both like?

Question

okay first the situation in brief for lazy answerers:

i have two guys who i both like and who both like me. how do i choose?

now for those who want more detailing:

i liked this guy "mike" for a long time and i ended up giving up on him because i thought i had no chance with him. so i started dating "brian" who i didnt like at first but now i have really fallen for him and love him alot. i still liked mike all this time now though and now he knows im dating brian but says he likes me too. how can i choose???

Answer 1

well, thats pretty hard but i think u should stick with brian since u and him are going out as it wouldnt be fair for brian if u just picked mike and let brian be heart broken. just tell mike that he had his chance before and now its too late. thats a decent thing a gal wud do.

Answer 2

Well who do you want to be with more, and if you really do like this brian guy like you say you do then just stay with him, your already dating him, but if you like the other guy mike more, which sounds like you do then you should choose mike, it sound like you've liked mike a lot longer and obviously still do. hopefully i didn't confuse you more