How do you play yourself up as a little better than you really are?

Question

I go to college, just quit my job, have tons of resumes out. I do not drive, I ride a mountain bike at 30 lol. And I am living with my adopted mom at 30 lol. I'm attempting to get my own place again soon, if it's low income. I'm also on the deans list. And I go to Church, and have goals.

Answer 1

Never play yourself up as being more than you are, quite simply because then you have to live up to it.

People want someone who is the real deal, not a figment of their imagination, and you are far better telling the truth as you will be found out when you meet anyways.

Look for personality, a sense of humour, respect and honesty, and someone that makes you think about them, even if they aren't there, over the outside stuff.

Looks are great, but like body size and shape, skin colour and ethnicity, they are things that can't really ( naturally) be changed, where as the stuff that comes from inside can grow.

This is only a personal opinion, but it's how I feel about dealing with people, and definitely when looking for a date.

mike t.

Answer 2

If people can't accept who you are then they should take a hike.