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How do you politely tell someone to leave?

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My dad always tries to hang out with me and my friends. I feel bad asking him to leave so how do i drop hints that he'll get?

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  1. LOOK YOU OLD  PERV , STOP CHECKING OUT MY FRIENDS... BEFORE I TELL MOM!   lol!


  2. I like spending time with you but I also like spending time with just my friends. You were a kid once too, right? I hope you understand.

  3. Well, you'd probably have to talk to him privately. Saying 'get out', however polite it is put, in front of your friends will hurt your Dad.

    Just approach him ans say 'Dad, I love spending time with you, but I need a little time on my own. I'm happy you're interested in my life so much and I appreciate it, but I'd like to spend some time with my friends-only".  

  4. Just tell him so frankly, and in private.  "Hey Dad, I love spending time with you, but I'd rather do it when my friends aren't around. Can we go see a movie / shoot hoops/ whatever tomorrow, but just till my friends arrive? "    

  5. well you can try to get to talk to him inprivate and say "daddy can you plz leave just until my friends are gone i promise we can make it up by going to he movies or going out to eat afterwards or tommorow thank you daddy"

  6. Telling someone you don't want them around may cause offense. Your Dad is several hundred thousand pounds out of pocket having produced a new person. He probably wants to enjoy your company. Accept the person, honour the contribution, reject the behaviour.

    "Of course I love you, Daddy. You, your car, and your credit card are always welcome to take my friends and me to the Pizza Restaurant. Doing these things for me make you a good Father.

    But if someone gives me a lift and picks up the bill, does that mean they have bought my time? I'm confused; what exactly are you trying to teach me here? I suppose it may look a little ungrateful from your point of view, but it isn't just me who is trying to learn how to behave towards men from you; all my friends are using you as an example too.

    You have brought me up to be confident enough to know that nobody can buy my time. Thank you so much. And don't worry; I understand that when you hang around longer than you're welcome, and cramp my style, and make all my friends feel inhibited and self-conscious, it's your way of saying you love me. It doesn't mean I love you any less.

    You're a good father... some of the time".

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