How do you possibly tell...?

Question

your husband, who is tempermental and abusive(though not physically) that you've become ill because of the stress you've been dealing with for years in the relationship? without him becoming angry all over again?

Answer 1

With your hand on his junk.  That way if he get's angry you can grab and twist.

Answer 2

You don't tell him anything. You either suck it up - or grow a pair of balls and leave an abusive relationship.

Answer 3

You can't.  He is going to get angry if you tell him you are sick of his sh*t.

Answer 4

You can't.  What you can do is change YOUR attitude by discontinuing making his problem into your problem.  If he gets mad, he gets mad, too bad so sad for him.  That's his problem, not yours.  The sooner you accept that, the sooner you can start feeling OK about you.  Let him worry about his anger - his anger belongs to him and to nobody else.  Stop taking ownership of it for him.

Answer 5

You need to get outa there. Get help today.

Answer 6

abusive people will turn everything into someone else's fault FOREVER

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No one should be with an abuser.

Answer 7

I stopped my husband from being verbally abusive. I showed him some chatting I was doing on the web and that I was gonna leave him unless he stopped. That was in 2000 and since then, he has stopped. I told him I was NOT going to put up with BS like that and if he did again, I was outta there....

Answer 8

That's called a "Catch 22"