How do you....? ?

Question

how do you get over someone you don't want to forget?

how do you savor a fading dream?

how do you forgive someone when you can't forgive yourself?

how do you move toward the future when you want to live in the past?

how do you get rid of the sick feeling in your gut?

how do you remember someone without obsessing?

how do you focus on the present when your worried for the future?

how do you forget the best person that happened to you?

how do you remember them when you only see them once a year?

how do you cope with the heartache?

Answer 1

My solution to all that stuff is spiritual:  Get a spiritual life and mine is Jesus, and the Bible.  Sorted me out proper that did.  Thankfully.

I live a contented and serene life (with hassles and hurdles all the time mind you,)  but power to solve my probs most of the time.

Answer 2

1.  You simply realize why you 'need' to forget them, like the core reason that you've been making excuses for all this time.

2. Dreams are like your subconscious telling you things you wouldn't normally realize in your waking life.. if you're resolving whatever it is you're dreaming about then you shouldn't try and hold on to that specific dream.

3. You cant.. either you forgive someone or you don't.

4. You have to realize that you cant just stay in the past, things will change with or without your consent. Roll with the punches and stop trying to freeze your life cause you'll end up regretting it later.

5. sometimes that feeling wont go away for years but eventually it dissolves. Just make yourself happy and everything else will fall into place.

6.  you don't go out of your way to do so.

7. baby steps.. and one at a time.

8. Just cherish the time you both spent together but accept that that chapter is over.

9. You wont forget the 'best person that happened to you'

10. Tine heals all wounds.