How do you raise 7 and six year olds my girl is a pain and my son cry alot AAHHH HELPPP!!!?

Question

PLEASE SOMEONE QUIC

Answer 1

You refer to your child as a pain?  Maybe your son is crying alot because of the attitude he is dealing with from his mother.  Children need attention.  So give them some.  If you give them attention, then your son will stop crying and your daughter will settle down and not be such a pain.

Answer 2

Good spankings of 4-6 hard swats on their butts with your hand, followed and preceded by lectures where you explain to them what they did wrong and that they will receive future spankings if they continue to misbehave, should solve your problem.

Answer 3

try giving them junk food. not every time though.

Answer 4

I would never preferr to my kids as a pain and they are 6 and 7 and my other daughter is 4 They are great kids sometimes they tell me no and yell at me and what not but that is just a kid for you they are tring to rebel against you to see where their limit is I've never spanked my kids not one time in their life and they try to push it sometimes like my daught the 6 year old she is bossy she said mom get me something to drink right now. I looked at her very seriously and said when u can ask me without telling me then I will she got mad at me and said I hate you I sent her to her room without nothing to drink I later went in and asked her if she new what hate mean I just like saying it when I'm mad at you I explained to her that love and hate are very powerful word and that hate means that u do not like that person and it is a very sad feeling and love is a very good word she looked at me and said mom I love you can u get me something to drink now and I'm sorry. Sometimes kids need things to be explained to them and have examples that way they know what you are talking about, my kids are pretty well behaved not much of a problem they just act like normal kids but u still love them regardless, you just have to make your bounderies and explain it to them and make sure that you have their full attention and give examples easy enough that they understand Good Luck it hard work being a mother but will eventually get better if you love and raise them right enough for them to thank you when they get older

Answer 5

LAY DOWN THE LAW!! give them a stern face and say (loudly in a mad tone) " LISTEN HERE MISTER. YOU ARE GOING TO BEHAVE YOURSELF, AND YOU ARE GONNA BEHAVE YOURSELF NOW"

Answer 6

Keeping them busy is definitly a must.

Try spending time with each of them doing something they like.

Since you don't give specifics it's hard to give more detail advice.

Answer 7

Well first off you should be stimulating them mentally and physically , I do daycare and the more I have the kids out of the house and learning and exploring the mor enjoyable they are. If we are just sitting around the house with no direction they get bored and will drive me crazy.

Answer 8

start  whooping their assess.  Or call Super Nanny.  I think thats whats called lol.

Answer 9

Why are they a "pain" and is it a result of them wanting attention, or they might have some more critical problems?  It's hard to ask for opinions on this nature without more detail.