How do you react to a short person?

Question

Or to a person shorter than you? I m like 175cm (don't know in inches though) and i feel short. In addition to that i have like muscular legs and a narrow back so my body is not very symmetrical and my weight is not much but i do have a little belly fat. Generally i work out as much as i can to fix my body. MY issue is that whenever somebody even a little taller comes by i feel like a total zero! Like nobody! Instantly i imagine myself as this tiny person! Its so frustrating that along with this i think: Why bother try to succeed and find girlfriends? the way you are you dont deserve it! I dont like the way i walk and i feel totally intimidated by taller people although i may be stronger and quicker. I even feel sorry for people shorter than me.... HOW can i get over it! Its ruining me! Alongside my other problems of course... oh godd!!!

Answer 1

Dont worry about it! We are all different - I dont care if somemone is super small or super tall to me everyone is the same!

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Answer 2

i wouldnt respond to it in any other way i see other people.i give both friends and strangers the same respect i give everyone.short people dont make a difference thats just immature to see the differently inmy oppinion

Answer 3

i am tall as you are, i dont have that problem, its not like you need 2 be tall to find a garlfriend, change ur attitude, or wear clothes that make you look taller and thinner if u cant get over it .

Answer 4

The problem you currently fail to deal with is a warped point of view, much like how the skinny anorexic teenager is constantly worried of getting fat.

You must know, that compared to the average person, you are considered tall and treating yourself as a little person is unethical and, somewhat offensive.

If you are really disturbed by your height, refer to a doctor that might answer your questions about this matter, such as,

"Am I tall enough for my age?"

                  

or

"How can I increase my height?"

But, personally, after the age of 21, the body has reached it's limit to grow, and without proper nutrition, your bones make expirience weakness, and you will become shorter.

But remember!

Many athletes have excelled at sports thanks to their speed or endurance or strength, despite being “short.” And shortness has no impact on the success you’ll experience in the rest of your life.

Anyone can point to anything about themselves—their nose, the color of their skin, their nationality, their income level or their height, for example—as the reason for their lack of success, or use it as an excuse for not trying.

But many people with the same characteristics who refused to allow those traits to be an impediment have gone on to achieve great happiness and success. Focus on the best things about you, and use what you already have and what you are to get to where you want to be.