Someone says something that you find inappropriate or hurts your feelings or bothers you in some way and you call them on it. Instead of them apologizing or at least saying 'oh, I didn't mean to offend you'.... instead they make a comment that deflects it onto YOU for having a problem, such as 'chill out' or 'why can't you take a joke?' or 'why are you so sensitive' or 'you are making a mountain out of a molehill'?
How do you respond when someone offends you. You call them on it. And instead of taking responsibility for what they said, or at least acknowledging your feelings, they blame you.
How do you respond?
I am just curious as to how others deal with this. I see this ALOT lately, where people deflect and put the person down, when that person is only standing up for their feelings and their own beliefs.
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