When I do something that my husband thinks is not the best way to do things, he feels the need to lecture. When I am running late for something that involves him, too, he gets a really hard edge to him and starts rushing me around (even if it's just a couple of minutes and doesn't really matter). He feels the need to teach me how to deal with my anxiety disorder even though I'm in therapy and am doing pretty well on my own. He also worries that I will gain weight and looks and the calories on some of the things I'm eating and looks appalled if I overeat one day (I'm at the high end of normal, but I'm not overweight now). We're working on our relationship, so my question is how do I stand up for myself when he's doing these things? He honestly thinks he's being helpful most of the time and becomes pretty offended if I tell him to stop. That just makes our relationship a little worse for the day. But I am SO tired of it.
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