How do you stop obsessing over (groups of) people that don't want you?

Question

How do you stop thinking about them and being with them? How do you cope with them not wanting you and feeling bad?

How do you keep yourself from contacting them again so they'll have another chance to hurt you?

Answer 1

jessi,talk to your mom&dad. you need help.and they will give it to you.start with mom dad i love you both.i have a problem that i need help with.they will respect you for going to them.good luck.i care.you sound like a good and sensitive person dealling with a problem that you just dont know what to do.

Answer 2

You'll get over them soon. Don't fight the feeling to be closer with them. Who knows you might get lucky. It's your hope that is keeping you around them in the first place. Maybe have like a free and frank discussion to understand the exact reasons for them liking you.

Answer 3

You talking about social peers?  You dont need to fit into a group.  Be  yourself.

Answer 4

Are you sure this is true?  Is this family or friends?  

I need details!!!!

You sound like my friend, but my friend has major issues with his friends and family.  He expects everyone to pay for his stuff and take care of him.  While we all work our butts off.  And he not like 18 or 16 he is 31 years old.  He thinks everyone disrespects him, puts him down, etc. but the mere fact is that he is a mooch, unappreciative, rude, etc. and he does not see it.  We have ALL for so long put up with him and are getting quite tired of him.  We want him to work and learn about money and life so he would stop using us and see how hard paying for bills and c**p really are!!!!

My point being are you doing something to offend these people?  Think hard.  Are the complaints the same around or are they just mean bullies?  Really?

If you really feel that you do nothing wrong than STAY AWAY from them!!!!!!!!!!!!  or keep that at an arms distance or do not do anything for them unless reciprocated.

I wish I could help you out more but I do not know the details.