My son wanted to have a pool party this summer, and since there are 19 kids in his class and 2 good friends who don't go to his school, I said he could invite 4 boys and 4 girls (this after a birthday party 2 months ago where EVERYONE was invited). He chose 4 girls from class, 2 boys from class, and the 2 boys who don't go to his school, and e-vites were sent to the parents. We talked over and over again about how he shouldn't talk about the party at school because the kids who weren't invited would be sad.
Yesterday when I was picking him up, the mom of one of the "invited" boys was there and said to my son, "oh, we're excited about your pool party this weekend! It looks like it's going to be sunny!" Well, one of the "uninvited" boys ran over and said, "can I come to you pool party too? I want to come to your pool party!" Ugh.
So, what would you do? It's not that we don't like this boy...he's very nice, but we were just trying to limit the number of kids and my son didn't choose him. I managed to quickly change the subject and we got out of there, but for future reference, I'm looking for ideas in case it ever happens again. Suggestions? What would you say to him?
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