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How do you tell a married women that you are in love with her?

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I met this beautiful women, who is married. I thinks she knows it but pretends to not. She is having problems with her husband and recently got mad at me because, when she made herself available for me I did not take the opportunity.

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You don't tell a married woman you're in love with her. She's MARRIED. So let's say you and your wife are going through a 'rough patch'.... this guy comes along and tells your wife that he loves her. How do you feel about it??? Happy? Relieved? Or maybe you want to find the guy and kick his a** for interfering in your marriage. Dude... you need to find a single girl and not try to be this girls rebound from her marriage
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DON'T RUIN HER MARRIAGE! LET HER DIVORCE HIM WITHOUT YOUR INFLUENCE. THEN GO FOR IT! OTHERWISE BACK OFF. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS PROBLEMS MAYBE THEY WILL WORK IT OUT. PUT YOURSELF IN HER HUSBAND'S PLACE HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOUR WIFE CHEATED ON YOU. DON'T BE SELFISH THINK OF HOW THIS WOULD EFFECT HER FAMILY ESPECIALLY IF THEY HAVE KIDS! AND IF SHE CHEATS ON HIM WHAT MAKES YOU THINK SHE WON'T CHEAT ON YOU! BELIEVE ME SHE MIGHT THINK THAT THE GRASS IS GREENER BUT UNLESS HE IS ABUSIVE IT NEVER IS. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK YOU ARE ANY DIFFERENT THAN HER HUSBAND. LET HER MAKE HER OWN DECISION WITHOUT YOU.
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You DON'T.

Don't make her feel terrible. Keep it to yourself
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You go messing around in another man's marriage and you're liable to catch a bullet when you least expect it. Mind your own business, stop being a piece of S**t masquerading as a man, and leave her alone.
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You don't. You leave married women alone. If she is having trouble with her marriage you should wait until she is truly available AFTER she gets a divorce and takes time for herself. She doesn't sound like much of a lady if she's throwing herself and you and you decline and now she's pissed? Stay away from her, she is trouble!
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YOU ABSOLUTELY DO NOT DO THAT! She belongs to someone else and you are stepping on boundries that you should not cross. She promised her life to another and if you truly loved her you wouldn't even consider that unless she divorces.
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Just tell her you would like to take part in destroying her marrage. Hopefully you will then marry her and some other looser with no respect for others will come along and repay you by doing the very same thing only to you.
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First of all you don't, those are waters that I would not tread on if I were you,find an available woman, not one who is obviously spoken for, other wise you maybe setting yourself up for automatic failure.
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Here is my Hollywood answer: ( I'm from Hollywood )

Tell her that you really think she is a pretty and wonderful woman and that it is exciting to be around her. But, that you are a respectable man. You do not try to steal woman from their husbands. You respect marriage and the love people have for each other, as well as their trust.

Tell her that you will not be hanging around her any longer. if you work with her ignore her, no talks, no lunches, nothing. Then ask for a transfer.If you hang with her husband or their friends just stop hanging around them. Do other stuff in different locations.

She will probably say to herself that this guy is great. If she really has the hots for you she will know it even more. But, she knows that you are a good man and you are not a desperate guy. You have self control. And if, I say if she and her husband are through, then she will come looking for you for action. But, wait until the divorce is final.

I am still unclear about who is coming-on to who and her motivation. Why would a married woman, " Make herself available for you?", what does that mean? Did she tell you to help her with her luggage that happened to be stored in her v****a? or are you reading her kindness and maybe flirtatiousness as advances?

Remember there are beautiful women everywhere.
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If you love her, you will not pursue her until she isn't living with him any longer. Tell her this...she will love you for it.
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personX6  yours get be voted as BEST ANSWER.

even for asking this question you should be SHOT & P SSED on.

you show no respect for the sanctity of marriage.

if you do go ahead and express yourself to her in that way,then I will hope and pray that you will suffer the same way that you will be making her husband suffer if problems arise because of your actions.

STAY WELL CLEAR or you may feel the wrath of not only God but the wrath of a married man.pull your head out of your butt before it is too late.she may be in an uneasy state right now about her marriage,don't make things any worse,show some respect for their marriage.BACK THE  F    OFF !!!
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SO WHAT EXACTLY IS YOUR QUESTION? JUST TELL HER I MEAN SHE IS MARRIED SO DONT EXPECT MUCH BACK....
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BAD idea for far too many reasons to list here in this small space. She made herself "available" to her so she could USE you to make herself feel wanted.  Please do not take that as a compliment, because it is not.  She got "mad" because her plan failed - and it SHOULD have.

I do NOT care if she has "problems" with her husband - what makes you think the "problems" are not mostly because of HER?  She needs to END her marriage and give herself time to figure out what she did wrong BEFORE she jumps in to another relationship.  You would be a complete fool to think messing around with her ANY time in the near future would work for either of you, because it wont.
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nothing but trouble buddy.. sure you have the hottest, naughtyest s*x ever.. but in the end.. it just ain't worth it.
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Stay away. Stay away. Don't tell her. Love is subjective. Things are not always what they are cracked up to be. Many people, including you, will get hurt. What makes you think she'd be above replacing you if she actually left him?

This feeling will pass. Look for someone who isn't being so selfish and is FREE to love you back.
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You don't tell her. She's married..you have no right to infringe upon their marriage.

She's just looking for d*ck because she's having problems at home. You're a toy to her..a distraction..nothing more.

Grow up and find a woman of our own.
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Stay away from married women/men.When they are having problems at home they go outside looking for a thrill.Your only gonna get your heart broken.Basically,she only wants to use you until things calm down at home for her.
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Just be honest and tell her that you are in love with her.
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